FAILED_LOGIN_ATTEMPTS
and similar are properties of the profile associated with your user. You can check the settings with this query:
select u.profile
, p.resource_name
, p.limit
from dba_users u
join dba_profiles p
on u.profile = p.profile
where p.resource_type = 'PASSWORD';
These limits are set for the profile: you can change them but the new limits will cascade to all users with this profile:
alter profile whatever limit FAILED_LOGIN_ATTEMPTS 12;
Alternatively you can modify the user so it has a more forgiving profile:
alter user joesoap profile default;